Saturday, April 5, 2014

PRE/POST LDS DIVORCE, SUGGESTED BOOK/BLOG LIST

FIND YOUR ANSWERS IN BOOKS

BOOKS TO GIVE DIRECTION AND HOPE AFTER DIVORCE

How do I start over? How do I manage my finances? Where do I go from here? What about  my kids? 

There are those who have gone before you and have paved a path for you. Start with these books. I found that during and after a divorce was a great time to become absorbed in reading. As Latter Day Saints, we don't go to the bottle, or to drugs, and if there ever was a time that we were tempted, it was then. Books are a great way to find answers and escape from the here and now. I would love any other book suggestions you may have on any helpful to divorcees. 


*HOW TO HUG A PORCUPINE............................By John Lund
*MORMON AND SINGLE AGAIN......................By David Clark
*A DIVORCE GUIDE FOR LDS MEN.........By Valiant N. Cummings
*LATTER-DAY DIVORCE AND BEYOND.......By Jennifer James
*DIVORCING A NARCISSIST........By Tina Swithin and Dr. Carole Lieberman MD
*WHEN TOGETHER FOREVER DOESN'T LAST.............By Kolleen DeGraff and Patti Adams
*FINDING HOPE................................................By S. Michael Wilcox
*ONE FOR THE MONEY....................................By Marvin J. Ashton
*SPLITTING: PROTECTING YOURSELF WHILE DIVORCING SOMEONE WITH BORDERLINE OR NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER.......By Billy Eddy, LCSW, JD & Randy Kreger
*THE VERBALLY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP............By Patricia Evans
*WHY DOES HE DO THAT?...................By Lundy Bancroft
*THE WIZARD OF OZ & OTHER NARCISSISTS.......By 
*THE SOCIOPATH NEXT DOOR........By Martha Stout, PHD
*BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ABUSE..........By Beverly Engel
*MOVE ON, MOVE UP.........By Paula White
*DARING GREATLY.........By Brene Brown
*BOUNDARIES....By Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend
*THE DANCE OF ANGER...........By Harriet Lerner
*HEALING THROUGH CHRIST.........www.healingthroughchrist.org/workbook-feedback/
*STOP WALKING ON EGGSHELLS........By Paul Mason, MS & Randi Kreger
*7 SPIRITUAL KEYS TO HEALING FROM HEARTBREAK & BREAKING THE PATTERN...
By Ashlee Peterson (includes online course for post-divorce)
SHATTERED.......By Fay Klinger & Bettyanne Bruin


*THE ESSENTIAL GUIDE TO BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER...R. Kreger
*THE ABC's OF BPD (borderline personality disorder)...by Kreger & E. Gunn
*LOVE AND LOATHING: PROTECTING YOUR MENTAL HEALTH & LEGAL RIGHTS WHEN YOUR PARTNER HAS BPD.......K. Williams-Justesen & R. Kreger
*YOU'RE MY WORLD: A NON-BP's GUIDE TO CUSTODY....K. Lewis & P. Shirley
*HOPE FOR PARENTS: HELPING YOUR BORDERLINE SON OR DAUGHTER WITHOUT SACRIFICING YOUR FAMILY OR YOURSELF.......K. Winkler & R. Kreger
*HOW TO AVOID FALLING IN LOVE WITH A JERK.....John VanEpp
*WILL I EVER BE FREE OF YOU..........Karyl McBride PHD
*THE MANIPULATIVE MAN........Dorothy McCoy, EdD

                            OTHER BLOGS FOR DIVORCE SUPPORT

*DEVOUT YET DIVORCED MORMONS............divorcedlds.blogspot.com
*DIARY OF A TABOO: LIFE AS A DIVORCED MORMON WOMAN ...
divorcedmormon.blogspot.com
*DIVORCE-BY COMMON CONSENT, A MORMON BLOG
*LDS LIVING-DIVORCE.....ldsliving.com/tag/divorce
*LIFE AS A DIVORCED MORMON WOMAN...... thatgoodpart.wordpress.com/ part 17
*MORMON DIVORCE AND MALE ISSUES....mormondivorce.blogspot.com
*FACING TRIALS WITH FAITH: DIVORCED AT 21....mormonwoman.org
*LINES FROM THE BORDER (dealing with borderline personality disorder)...    www.bpdcentral.com/blog
*REDESIGNINGVICTORIA.BLOGSPOT.COM
*http://www.BLESSEDANDHAPPYSTATE.COM/category/my-story/
*LDSabusesurvivorsupport.org
*NEWLIFEFORDADDY.blogspot.com
*AMANDAONTHEMEND.blogspot.com
*LIFEREFRESHED.TUMBLR.COM
*MIDSINGLESTODAY.COM
*ORDINARY WOMEN DISCOVERING AN EXTRAORDINARY GOD/www.upheldbook.com
*THE GUIDE TO SETTING STRONG BOUNDARIES/www.markmanson.net
*http://www.bestmastersincounseling.com/children-and-divorce/
*www.DIVORCE-STEPS-TO-CLIMB.Blogspot.com




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